1 /5 Jean Holland: My mother was a faithful member for more than 70 years. When she was very ill and in hospice, at the age 0f 100, the church was absent. Not one call from the pastor , or any expression of sympathy after she died. Her Sunday class was attentive, but as a member who faithfully pledged and participated for 70 years -- until she could no longer attend two years ago - she was mostly neglected. Even a short conversation with the pastors assistant, in which I expressed my hurt and disappointment (I was baptized and married at FBC), did not result in even an "Im sorry." It certainly doesnt comport with my understanding of what it means to be the body of Christ. It seems that the church is now all about the numbers, about evangelizing and not about caring for those when they need it but cant come to church and/or write big checks. When I can finally have a service of remembrance for my mother, it sadly wont be at her church home of 70 years.