1 /5 Victoria Gordon: As the church is currently under construction; during my grandmothers funeral at their āsister churchā they couldnāt find the pall, the substitute cantor didnāt know any of the songs we requested and they failed to disclose that they received numerous floral arrangements for her funeral mass, much to my familyās embarrassment when we found out after sending out numerous thank you cards. My grandmother would have me turn the other cheek but all my compassion died with her.